The stories I hear in public spaces tend to be more negative than positive. I get there will be seasons when we are not feeling that great about what we are nourishing ourselves with or the exercise we are choosing or not. This current situation (2020) has really made us think more creatively about movement and an exercise routine, as well as the meals that we prepare for ourselves and possibly our families. (More reflection on that later.) However, I believe in inspiring and providing consumers with a different way of approaching their relationship with food and movement and this will require some flexibility, some intentionality, and rethinking our priorities.
For example, recently on a flight a mom was with her two daughters, who were eating cheeseburgers from Burger King. Mom said “Those look so good, better than what I had”, which was a kale and quinoa salad from CPK. Now I have no idea mom’s situation with food, but it felt laced in deprivation. Kale and quinoa salads can be awesome and flavorful, but If she really wanted the cheeseburger have a cheeseburger. Don’t be drooling over a fast food cheeseburger, because you have been unfulfilled with a grab and go salad.
Another time I was talking to a friend (many friends) that have had babies. Guess what? Babies make our bodies change and they will never be 100% like they were before the babies. Some of us carry the extra weight differently. For some it takes years to get closer to prepregnancy weight. For some it never happens. For some a new relationship with movement is formed and one may take up a new sport or workout and feel better than before baby or babies. The same act could have occurred during a season of depression or challenge with our mental health. Whatever the cause for your body to change in shape, size, etc., it is important to be accepting of what makes sense for you may not work for others; others you work with, live with and are friends with, etc. You need to find what works for you!
For my two pregnancies, I had different weight gains and different time periods of getting back to fitting into pre prego pants, etc. I am active and I had C-sections! So my activity was decreased in the 8 weeks after pregnancy. I had an April baby and an October baby, weather looked very different in the weeks and few months after these two little angels (ha!) arrived. I always ran and biked a lot and now my activity looked differently. My runs became walks, my long runs became short runs, my “workout” became a walk pushing a stroller at the mall or Target! I did some light weights and push-ups and sit-ups throughout the week to build back strength and tone (only if I made it a priority.) Some days I was annoyed, because I couldn’t even have a few mins away from my kids to do anything for myself. And I also started to change my perspective about this time in my life. If taking a long walk pushing a stroller outside on a gorgeous day and getting to see my sweet boys face as he got excited about a tree, squirrel or truck was my workout and I felt good then guess what I won. I will never have these moments back and in the future I can get in some different workouts or movement breaks that don’t include the stroller, but guess what?…I am not just worrying about myself anymore, I have to take care of others who rely on me, so I got to make it work!